2 posts categorized "Graduation"

June 02, 2009

Class of '74

Preston Mitchell

Our guide book at Allaso Ranch this year will feature the jr. and sr. high staff's senior photos.  So, I went in search of a photo of me my senior year.  When I found it and spent a few minutes looking at it, I realized that the picture had been taken 35 years ago.  Wow!  That's almost impossible to believe.

The first thing I notice is the hair.  Back in the day, I had hair past my shoulders. I had just gotten a haircut because I was not in compliance with school regulations.  Your hair could not touch your collar.  I remember at Graduation practice that the admin was pulling guys out of line and making them get their hair cut by barbers at the school.  It's funny today that so many guys are going with the same look. 

The clothes were the style in 1974. Big thick striped ties with a huge knot.  I loved the pants.  The checked red, white and blue were cool.  What you can't see are my white shoes and white belt  This is also the outfit I wore to the Prom in our unairconditioned gym.  Back in those days, I loved to dress like Pat Boone and he always had white shoes on.  In the 70's school dress included jeans, green army jackets (no cammo), tennis shoes or boots.  John Lennon was a huge influence in the way we dressed.  At least pre-Yellow Submarine days.

Senior rings seem to have meant more in 1974 than they do today.  To get a senior ring was a huge honor your junior year.  I love my ring and wore it every day.  Every girlfriend I had wore the ring with the help of a lot of yarn.  I still have my ring and look at it occasionally.  That ring had been around the block a few times with girls from Bell County. 

When I look at my smooth, wrinkle free face, I didn't have a clue about what was going to happen to me.  I was a few months from going to Texas Tech and meeting my future wife. I didn't' know that I would have three kids, be married 29 years, suffer from diabetes and kidney disease, have a transplant, lose a father to Alzheimer's and be called to be a pastor at the greatest church in the world.  Not a care in the world at this point in my life. 

To all of you who are graduating in a few days, you are the same way.  These will be the best days of your life because after you leave for college, the military or work, your life is going to change in ways you can't even imagine.  Life is full of surprises, happiness, sadness, life and death, ups and downs!  Live each day as if it were your last becausee it may be.  Follow after the Kingdom of God and you won't have anything to worry about.  Don't hang out with idiots who have the potential to destroy your life.  Find the good and solid Christ followers who will do the right thing.

I hope when you look back after 35 years, you can say like I can say that God has taken me on an incredible journey and it's not over yet.  He has protected me, comforted and provided for my every want and need.  He has blessed my family financially, relationally and spiritually.  God has given me a wife I do not deserve and three kids who are making their way in this world.  He has revealed Himself to me more and more.

What great memories of high school!  Now, I have to go work out so I can achieve that same sleek body I had 35 years ago!  To all the grads, congratulations on graduation!


May 20, 2009

Listen Up Seniors!

High school seniors are in that time of year when they will hear a bunch of speeches about preparing for the future, living lives of integrity, believing in them themselves, blah, blah, blah.  If I were going to address the Senior Class of '09, these are some practical things I would tell them:

*    If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend that you are not going to marry, go ahead and break up with them now.  Proms and parties are over.  Get single and have some fun this summer.

*    Read "Why Mike's Not a Christian" by Ben Young.  Great book on the basics of the faith that a student better know before they head off into the world.

*    Tell the one or two people that have influenced you the most during high school 'thank you." 

*    Call your first grade teacher and find out how he/she is doing.  Let them know that you graduated and what your future plans are.

*    Get a passport, savings account  and checking/debit account.  You are a big person now.

*    Don't worry about your major.  It doesn't matter until your junior year.  Rarely does anybody actually earn a living with their major.

*    Pick friends wisely.  The next few years will determine whether you will succeed in life.  Don't let an idiot ruin it for you.

*    It's okay to borrow money to attend college.  Don't feel guilty about it.  It is the best investment.

*    Don't drink and drive.  More college students are killed driving drunk than almost any other reason.

*   If you go to college, don't come home for the first time until Thanksgiving.  Give yourself a chance to learn college life, get comfortable in the dorm and hang out with other students.  If you come home, you are like a homesick 1st grader at camp.  Grow up, cut the strings and be a man or woman.

*    Start saving NOW!  Live by the 80-10-10 rule.  Live on 80%, tithe 10% and save 10%.  God will bless your life and you will be financially ready for the future.

*    College life can be a blast SOBER!  Prove it to yourself and other students.

*    Read a chapter of the Book of Psalm every night. 

*    If you start off with strong grades as a freshman, the rest is easy.  Start off bad, and you will have a hard time catching up.  Limit your activities your freshman year and study!

*    Your best friends today will not be your best friends after college.  You may not ever see your bff again after graduation.

*    Serve the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind.  Love your neighbor as yourself.

*    Memorize the Alma Mater and the fight song of your school!

I could go on and on, but I think these are some important things I learned when I left high school.  If anyone can think of anything else, add it.